I run a tight ship.
"How I operate: I give you the energy you give to me. If I seem like "blah"--Check Yourself"-- @SkinnyJeanius
Know your role and act accordingly.
Know your position and never think it's more than what it is....it's not--- @necolebitchie
.....the quotes above pretty much sums up how I lead my life. If my life were movie, everyone has a role. Most importantly I am the star ;-) I'm all about consistency and reciprocity when friendships are involved. I wasn't always like this. I was always the one rearranging my life for the needs of others but those same people weren't doing the same for me. Say what?? Oh no ma'am!!! Something had to give. My philosophy about friendships and acquittance's changed. Some people didn't make the cut. In the long run, that was probably the best decision for all involved. I no longer go out of my way for people. No one is exempt from this. I've been told that I'm a little too rigid. I'm not flexible and that I'm able to cut people off without a care. (I must admit I do make that look easy. Lol. Admittedly, it is not. But my peace of mind is the most important. *shrugs*)
Why am I saying all of this?!
I have a friend whose inconsistency irritates me to no end. He does not know how I roll. He apparently didn't get this memo: Inconsistency is the the real weapon of mass destruction. I do not subscribe to it and I do not support it.
Apparently I need to send out a new memo and make sure I CC him ;-)
I love making friends and all that jazz
But friendships with me come with two expectations: consistency and reciprocity.
Get with it or get lost.
I make no apologies
Sometimes in life, you have to take a stand.
on my team you have one time to slack - then you will slack no more - on my team ((@skinnyjeanius))
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