Tale of Two Crushes

The guy I like is unavailable.

I haven't talked to him in months

....as I write this it sounds as if its one of those I like him/he doesn't like me kind of thing. Don't worry it's not. :)

The other guy I like is an a*hole whose life is always at a crossroads. Apparently, life is hard.

On the flip side, a guy at my job has expressed interest and I'm not really impressed.

• He doesn't have a phone or a car. But he does have a son....*blankstare*

He wants to take me on a lunch date. (how is he gonna get there? how is he gonna tell me he's running late? #questions) Here's the thing: the guy that has expressed interest doesn't do it for me. Don't get me wrong, the kid has a smile that is to die for. (melts) But that's where it begins and ends. I told him that I wasn't looking for a relationship (Lies told on FB) which is something that he is looking for. I don't know what to do about him.

But I digress, the point of the post is: why do we (me + other women) pine away after guys who are "unavailable" for whatever reason but are quick to throw a blankstare at the guy who is present?? #dilemmas

I should be excited about about the guy at my job right? He's told me he's liked me. He's commented on my beauty. He wants to take me out to a place where there are witnesses. My breath doesn't escape when I see him. The butterflies don't move. My knees aren't weak. <---this is how I know that I don't like, like him. But the mere mention of the two aforementioned guys....((deep sigh))

What's a girl to do??!