"Men say they love independence in a woman, but they don't waste a second demolishing it brick by brick."-- Candice Bergen <<this.right.here
"A girl can wait for the right man to come along but in the meantime that still doesn't mean she can't have a wonderful time with all the wrong ones."
RT @assante For Colored Girls Who Considered The Wallslide When Reality Wasn’t Enough
"I wanna see something else in you before I invest in you" <<this is when I became a Wale fan. This is a lyric from Ambitious Girl Part I
But I showed up with whatever I had left
When your feet cool down, and your lungs are full of a new
breath, and you are
ready to begin building
do not be afraid of the jaded. show them good does exist. there are such things as fairy tale endings and good men/women.<<Currently straddling reality and fairy tale endings. I'm only 23....I'll straddle until I can't straddle no mo'. I be stretching so its cool.
i spent my 20’s asking questions. hopefully this descent into my 30’s will answer them all. <<I wonder what my 30's will bring?
I never focus on my struggles. Only my progress.
RT @MrSpB2 A woman’s worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. <<that whole whore/virgin dichotomy will have many women twisted in the game. Been there.Done that. Over it.
"being a good boyfriend seems almost as demanding as being a good husband and keeping your gf happy seems to be right up there with keeping your wife happy.....being a woman's boyfriend has never gotten me anywhere.....as I get older and I think about the idea of finding someone to be with the task of being that bf first before i could be a fiancee or before I could be husband. It just seems daunting. It's a lot of work to be a woman's boyfriend. Just like it's a lot of work to be a man's girlfriend.....it's just a vanity title really"--Jozen Cummings<< Titles or no titles? That is the question. I want strings attached. I want a title. Maybe I'll go with man-friend like Carrie? You know...to switch it up a bit.
“I visit home everytime my name leaves your mouth.”--Warsan Shire<<< I love it when guys I'm interested in say my name.
i question if i’m built for this game. or if i’m pushing past the limits of my design.<<<they always tell you to aim high. They never tell you about the crap in between. Maybe they do and we just never listen. Ah well. Here I am. Almost done.
RT @assante For Colored Girls Who Considered The Wallslide When Reality Wasn’t Enough
"I wanna see something else in you before I invest in you" <<this is when I became a Wale fan. This is a lyric from Ambitious Girl Part I
But I showed up with whatever I had left
When your feet cool down, and your lungs are full of a new
breath, and you are
ready to begin building
do not be afraid of the jaded. show them good does exist. there are such things as fairy tale endings and good men/women.<<Currently straddling reality and fairy tale endings. I'm only 23....I'll straddle until I can't straddle no mo'. I be stretching so its cool.
i spent my 20’s asking questions. hopefully this descent into my 30’s will answer them all. <<I wonder what my 30's will bring?
I never focus on my struggles. Only my progress.
RT @MrSpB2 A woman’s worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. <<that whole whore/virgin dichotomy will have many women twisted in the game. Been there.Done that. Over it.
"being a good boyfriend seems almost as demanding as being a good husband and keeping your gf happy seems to be right up there with keeping your wife happy.....being a woman's boyfriend has never gotten me anywhere.....as I get older and I think about the idea of finding someone to be with the task of being that bf first before i could be a fiancee or before I could be husband. It just seems daunting. It's a lot of work to be a woman's boyfriend. Just like it's a lot of work to be a man's girlfriend.....it's just a vanity title really"--Jozen Cummings<< Titles or no titles? That is the question. I want strings attached. I want a title. Maybe I'll go with man-friend like Carrie? You know...to switch it up a bit.
“I visit home everytime my name leaves your mouth.”--Warsan Shire<<< I love it when guys I'm interested in say my name.
i question if i’m built for this game. or if i’m pushing past the limits of my design.<<<they always tell you to aim high. They never tell you about the crap in between. Maybe they do and we just never listen. Ah well. Here I am. Almost done.
I like the word beau to replace boyfriend ;)
ReplyDeleteYes, I know a few people who currently use that term. I like "the boy"....I've used that before. Or whatever random nickname I come up with. Lol
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